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My Body Is Not Up For Political Debate

My Body Is Not Up For Political Debate

And I will nominate judges who know the difference between personal opinion and law. It is long past time for the Supreme Court to return the issue of abortion back to the states by overturning Roe v. Wade.

These are words spoken by one Mitt Romney, the Republican Presidential candidate for this year’s election in the United States. Mitt Romney, a man who claims to know the difference between personal opinion and law, yet can’t seem to remove his own opinion from the equation. Mitt Romney, a man who claims corporations are people, but refuses to treat people like people.

Abortion seems to be at the center of politics this year. It feels like every day, new ways to limit accessibility to abortion are being attempted. Representative Todd Akin’s disturbing comments about “legitimate rape” only serve to prove to me that anti-choice people are so far out of touch with reality that they actually can’t be trusted to make decisions like this.

In this Thursday, Aug. 16, 2012 photograph, Rep. Todd Akin, R-Mo., talks with reporters while attending the Governor's Ham Breakfast at the Missouri State Fair in Sedalia, Mo. Akin was keeping a low profile, Monday, Aug. 20, 2012, a day after a TV interview in which he said that women's bodies can prevent pregnancies in "a legitimate rape" and that conception is rare in such cases. (AP Photo/Orlin Wagner)

The most common argument I see against abortion is the rights of the unborn fetus. Some say that abortion is effectively killing a child, thereby personifying the fetus while simultaneously dehumanizing the pregnant person. The thing is, though, this argument often comes from people who aim to cut social welfare programs, free lunches at schools, and affordable daycare for people who do decide to not have abortion. If they are so pro-life, why do they not work to improve the lives of the living?

Comments like this always seem to be made by people whose biology does not allow them to even get pregnant, never mind have an abortion. Todd Akin has a penis. Paul Ryan? Also has a penis. Mitt Romney? He is a penis. Are there people with vaginas and uteri out there speaking out against abortion? Of course. Does that mean they’re any more qualified to make decisions about my body? Nope. Because my body is not up for political debate.

My body belongs to me and me alone. Only I may decide if I am going to get tattoos, fornicate, exercise, wear makeup, or do a sexy little dance on the hood of a car à la Tawny Kitaen. And I will do all of these things without apology, because I have the right to make decisions about me and my body all by myself.

This is my body, my vagina, and my uterus, and I reserve the right to make private decisions regarding the health and well-being of them without interference from the government. My body is currently GOP-free and I intend to keep it that way. My body is not up for political debate.

People who are anti-abortion are free to not have any abortions. Even pro-choice individuals may choose to not terminate an unexpected pregnancy, shocking as that may seem. That is their decision to make and I will happily respect that. But I will also expect you to respect and trust my decision to have an abortion if I find myself in a situation where I need to make that choice.

I welcome consideration and input in my decision-making process, but at the end of the day, there is only one person who can make decisions about my body. That person is me. And I will never allow anyone else to make a decision for me, regarding my body or not. I am a free-willed, free-thinking individual and I will not let anyone impede on that. Trust me on that.

I am sick and tired of peoples’ bodies and autonomy being objects of political debate, while people themselves are being removed from the discussion. You cannot dehumanize me to further your political career. I am a person and I expect to be treated as such. That is not too much to ask for.

My body is not up for political debate. Stop pretending like it is.

How do you feel about the political debates on abortion and other women’s issues? Share with us in the comments.

Written by Alisse Desrosiers
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Opinions stated in our editorials do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Feminspire and its staff as a whole, but instead reflect the opinions of the writer.

  • http://www.facebook.com/saritasemana Sarah Pires

    This is a perfect post.

  • Kate Rayes

    You make a lot of fantastic points, and I agree that abortion NEEDS to stay legal. One issue that feminists often bring up without pursuing further is this one: “My body is my body.”

    I really take issue with this because I believe that it takes two bodies to create a fetus, and that creates a new level of meaning. I think that it should also take two people to get rid of a fetus.

    I don’t think this would significantly change the number of abortions or anything, I just think it would encourage a more open and reflective dialogue, and possibly encourage people to be more thoughtful and discerning about contraception.

    Abortions are painful, expensive, and emotional processes and I believe that limiting the number that happen is a good idea.

    • http://www.floralinguist.com/ Kaya

      I mean, the point is that the fetus is dependent on the mother for the best part of 9 months. That’s why it’s my decision to make, and mine only. If cismen are able to carry children, ever, then they can decide to have an abortion themselves and I’ll stay out of it.

      • Kate Rayes

        Oversimplification, in my eyes, of the issue.

        As in my reply to Emma, I realize my thinking was flawed.

    • Emma

      Kate, there are a few issues that I take issue with in believing two people should be there to get rid of a fetus.
      Firstly, my assumption is that this would be mandated by regulation, that both parties would be there to sign off on the aborition, or something? If you had another idea as to how this would work, let me know.
      That completely erases rape victims, for one – if they have any idea who their rapist is, which many don’t, getting in touch with them to sign off an an aborition seems like one of the cruelest things you could make a woman do.
      Also, then aborition can become another tool in an abusive relationship. If I got pregnant and wanted to leave my abusive boyfriend, but had no resources, having a child would undoubtedly make that a more complicated factor and would, in many cases, hinder the woman from leaving. That hurts the child as well as the mother.

      A man will never have to put his body through nine months of pregnancy, which forces you to take time off from work in most cases and can cost you your job. Nobody should be forced to do something with their body that they don’t want to.
      Lastly it is very, very easy for a man to say “we are doing this together” when a woman gets pregnant, only to leave. This happens frequently, and while family courts are biased in the way of the mother, even having adaquate child support (something many single mothers don’t have) is not equal to having a partner there.
      Abortions are not expensive for all, or emotional processes for all. What is the benefit of limiting them?

      • Emma

        Also I definitely missed a lot of things but those were the first that jumped out at me.

        • Kate Rayes

          Emma, you bring up a lot of fabulous points. I definitely was thinking about consensual sexual relations when I wrote my response, I wasn’t taking rape or incest into account. Those would be obvious exceptions to ANY rule (unless the rule was made by Akin. Ha. Ha. I am not funny)

          I see where the pitfalls of my thinking were. I just can’t help but feel that women sometimes decide that because they are the ones that carry the child, it’s okay to entirely exclude the male-half of the fetus in the decision-making process. I should have made that point instead.

          I always make a fool of myself on these threads >.<

          Thanks for being thoughtful instead of cruel or mocking in your response, Emma!

    • http://www.facebook.com/alisse.desrosiers Alisse Marie

      I mean, either way, my body is still not up for POLITICAL debate.

      • Kate Rayes

        Thoroughly agreed.

  • A friend

    A good friend who, as a Catholic, identifies as pro-life, had an abortion last year. The guy who knocked her up had ignored her calls for weeks, and she was looking forward to a successful post-collegiate career.

    I wonder how many other pro-life women (and men with accidentally pregnant pro-life women in their lives) would change their point of view when put in that situation.

  • http://www.facebook.com/heyhello Riley Rose

    as always i agree with everything you said

  • meep

    “Even pro-choice individuals may choose to not terminate an unexpected pregnancy, shocking as that may seem.”

    Here is where you should point out that “pro-choice” does NOT mean pro-abortion, but pro-the ability to make an individual choice for yourself, whether it be an abortion OR keeping a baby. Pro-life people seem to forget this.

    • http://www.facebook.com/alisse.desrosiers Alisse Marie

      That’s what I was going for :)

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