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The 10 Worst Analogies for Sexual Purity

By Becca Costello-Thomas On August 4, 2014

I heard my first misogynistic analogy of sexual purity as a very small child, watching the movie The King and I. My mom has passed down a love of musicals to me… Read More


Why I Don’t Care Why You Don’t Use Birth Control

By Jackie Klein On July 28, 2014

In a recent article on Buzzfeed, 24 women outline the reasons that they do not use birth control. It’s exactly the sort of thing that you would expect from Buzzfeed, in that it’s more… Read More


6 Reasons Why We Should Stop Telling Each Other it’s “OK” to Be Single

By Ana Urena On July 18, 2014

As someone currently living the quarter life, I have been single in the past and remember it as one of the greatest times of my life. Now that I am no longer… Read More


I Thought I Met “The One” – Until I Found Out He Had a Girlfriend

By Diana Trinh On July 15, 2014

What does it mean to be the other woman? In our heads, we imagine someone who is selfish – someone who wants our relationship and would do anything to ruin it. After… Read More


Why I’m Dating a Shorter Man

By Rebecca Pitzer On July 7, 2014

I’ve always been tall. I was constantly towering over my classmates in elementary school, I’m always the one shoved into the back of any sort of gathering so that I don’t block… Read More


I Won’t Be Your Muse (Or Your Yoko Ono)

By Ana J. Urena On July 3, 2014

“Behind every great man is a great woman.” This is what I was taught growing up. It not only puts women a few steps behind men, but it downplays our role in… Read More

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You Deserve Better Than Your Frenemy

By Deanna de Bara On July 2, 2014

We’ve all had that friend. The one that has nothing but good things to say to your face but talks about you behind your back. The one who makes passive aggressive comments… Read More

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13 Things a Man Can do to be More Attractive to Women

By Rebecca Pitzer On June 27, 2014

This is a response an article by John Smith, called 13 Things a Woman Can Do To Be More Attractive To Men. After reading John Smith’s article, I decided that I had… Read More


How Magazines Convinced Teenage Me That My Sexuality Didn’t Exist

By Lindsey Dennis On June 17, 2014

For the last few days I’ve been grappling with the fact that I spend a lot of time thinking about dating and sex. In fact, I write and post a lot about… Read More

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Oh, Baby: Is it Ever Okay to Fake an Orgasm?

By Lindsey Dennis On June 12, 2014

Oh baby, oh baby, yes, there. I hope you read that in the most monotonous voice possible because I’m going to share my thoughts on fake orgasms, also known as false performance… Read More


An Open Letter to Straight People Advocating for Safe Sex

By Lindsey Dennis On June 11, 2014

Hey there, Let me start off by saying: I love safe sex. I talk about it all the time. The number of impromptu condom demonstrations, birth control discussions, and random sex talks… Read More

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Masturbation Month is Almost Finished, But You Don’t Have to Stop Cuming!

By Sherrie Silman On May 27, 2014

May is Masturbation Month. Yet, until the morning of May 22nd I had been remiss in my self-care. During a morning rush in which it felt as if the Imps of Morning… Read More